Monday, August 22, 2011
Don't you just hate how the media refers to women that are not Victoria Beckham's size as plus size. I cannot stand it especially when the fashion scene makes big beautiful women feel like freaks of nature!!
I used to absolutely hate it when I went to some events and I bumped into people I hadn't seen in a while and the first thing they'd tell me was how fat I'd gotten!?Usually i'd ask myself errr, who died and made you the weight police?..then I'd want to take a shoe, gorge their eyes out and feed them to hungry lions in some jungle somewhere(gory, i know..alot goes on in my mind) but then again, after a shot of something (usually strong and alcoholic)I'd think to myself, hold on a minute..it's not their fault, i HAVE gained weight since they last saw me and it's ok!There's no rule against it!
Everything lies in accepting yourself for who you are and knowing that you have the power to change if you truly wanted to.
I know it's been said like a million times, but i cannot over emphasize enough just how BIG REALLY IS BEAUTIFUL!! a plus sized woman can look good in anything, despite all the myths that surround the industry on plus size dressing(such as a plus size woman cannot rock skinny jeans!!...MYTH!!!)..all u need is the knowledge of how to put http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifthis top with that skirt, what colour suits you best, experiment with this style and that style..it's always good to try out new things..the only thing that's permanent is change right?...in the words of Tim gunn..".MAKE IT WORK PEOPLE!!!"
we all come in different shapes and sizes and there is really no right shape or size so DO YOU whatever shape or size you are AND BE FRIGGIN HAPPY!!!LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LET PEOPLE DEFINE HOW YOU LIVE IT!
LOVE YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL INTO PLACE!!!TRUSST ME!...xoxo!
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